Family

I was just blog visiting just now and randoly came to someone's blog.

and i discovered something.

hmmm i should say family are like... root of you?

i used to have so many quarrells with mum.

and i scold vulgarities. no right in her face of course, but on facebook and blog.

i swear, you can read through my posts. there ARE posts grumbling about her.

and actually, now i think about it, i agree that i was just too much.

i mean, imagine this.

you're pregnant with your very own baby for months! and finally it came out to be a healthy baby.

you spent your life with it and corrects her/him in every way whenever they were doing the wrong things. 

and one fine day, your baby has become a teenager and starts calling you bitch and everything.

its VERY hurtful.

i remember, my baby cousin, not baby. i mean toddler. she say she hate me once when i accidentally tripped her. and i cried for hours! well i love childrens and kids. so yup, that's a cousin. not my child. if it was my child, i might have already cried for days :X

yes, parents maybe abit unreasonable at times. 

and its ALWAYS hard to swallow the "its-good-for-you" reasoning.

cuz in our eyes, its not good when someone restricts u all the time.

but hey, they are really worried of you that's why they're like that.

so here are a few solutions.

1--to gain their trusts. always ALWAYS always tell them where are you if you are out. like where you are going, who you are going with and around what time will you be back. if she doesnt allow, let it rest. try again some other time.

trust= reliability+delight. so true :3

2--keep them noted if you're staying back in school for projects or cca or meetings or whatever thing you have. call them or sms them. its amazing how this little thing can take off the big doubt in their head. and, tell them if you're eating in school or not. its quite disappointing to hear from your own child "'ve eaten. you can keep those away" when you spent like 2 hours whipping up a good meal.

this is how strong a mum is x]

3--(optional) if you're affectionate0.o i mean like, a hug or a peck on the cheek when you step out of house for school wont hurt right? well, this obviously doesnt work for me. 've never been really touchy-touchy with my parents since like forever. but mum always makes me kiss her on the cheek before going to school. always.

apparantly, my mum's completely the opposite._.

4--sometimes when they experience something really bad during work, they'll come back with a foul mood and if you're unlucky, you get lashed out. i was lashed out before. wel its really hurtful cuz i didn do anything wrong but i still get a scolding all the same. what i can say is just be understanding. ask them what happened. the last thing they need now is a "dad your feet stink! go and bathe!" i saw my dad tear before when i was really young. he was somewhat bullied by higher authority people back then. 'm glad that higher authority person was sacked during the recession xP *i know 'm evil*

tee hee! see how busy they are. but they can be of real fun at times too :D

yeah that's about it?

its always hard to have a non-conflict family. it's almost impossible.

see! conflict!

but what you need is to be understanding. and its really hard to do that at times. but try.

actually, i also dont know what happened to me.

nowadays, i just understand my parents more. i think from their perspective. but if i have something that is against their idea, i will voice it out nicely. keyword: nicely xD

because deep down, i know i love them.

my whole family i mean.

we dont cherish the things we have normally. 

so,imagine this. one day, your mum/dad/sibling met something unfortunate and died. your life would be really empty and there will be this HUGE hole there. 

i cant say i understand how people with broken families feel because i dont have a broken family thus i have no right to comment. but hey,so far the people i know with broken families are really doing great. i think they're really brave and that's what made them stronger than us.

yup yup,ending post already :}

PS: i still have english and math hw left undone but i dont feel like doing :/

PSS: my brother locked his phone and forgot his password== *speechless*

PSS: i learning staff already! finished with sword for wushu ^.^